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August 4, 2026

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Tiny Prompts, Atomic Payoffs: The Habit Hack That Actually Works

Why Do Habits Matter? I have written a number of posts and chapters about habits. Why do they matter so much? Because sustainable change is not instant. It is iterative. And if you think about it, it is a string of microtransactions formed by habits that add up to a transformational change in your life. Willpower? That’s a word you use if you want defeat. A life of constant white knuckling is no longer acceptable to me. And it doesn’t have to be acceptable to you, either. But – HOW? How do you make the change? How do you build…

Turn Up the Healing: How Music Boosts Mental Health

You know that feeling when a song comes on, and suddenly you’re not where you are—you’re back in high school, at your favorite beach, or driving down the highway with the windows down, singing your heart out? That’s not just a vibe—it’s therapy. The Mental Health Power of Music Music is medicine. Music triggers memory, and memory triggers emotion. Studies have shown that music engages various areas of the brain, including those associated with memory and emotion, like the hippocampus and the prefrontal cortex. Nostalgia, it turns out, is good for you—it creates a sense of continuity, joy, and even…

Nerve, Interrupted: How to Manage Chronic Pain

Dealing with chronic pain can feel like a relentless journey, but it’s also one where hope and empowerment can lead the way. I’d like to share my own story and offer some tips that helped me reclaim control. My Journey: Trusting Instincts and Finding My Path I faced a bilateral wrist injury, initially misdiagnosed by several specialists. Despite the consensus, I felt something wasn’t right. By questioning the status quo and using research skills I’ve honed through my blog, I discovered the root cause: a chronic birth defect. My persistence led me to a solution that finally set me free…

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Start Fresh in the New Year: Raise Your Vibration and Embrace a New You

As the calendar turns to a new year, it’s the perfect time to reset, refresh, and refocus. What better way to start fresh than by understanding and raising your vibration—your energy frequency that influences how you experience life? In this post, we’ll explore how recognizing, shifting, and elevating your vibrational state can help you attract positivity, joy, and success in the year ahead. Recognize Your Vibrational State Your vibrational state reflects the energy you emit in any given moment. Think of it as the “signal” you send to the universe. Signs of a low vibrational state include negative thoughts, lethargy,…

Sip, Sweat, Succeed: Your Ultimate Dry January Guide

Ditch the glass, stow away the corkscrew, and prepare to embark on the adventure of a “Dry January.” This trend of abstaining from alcohol for the entire month has gained popularity over the years, promising not just a hangover-free start to the year but also a chance to reevaluate your relationship with that tempting tipple. So, should you hop on the sober bandwagon? Let’s uncork your Dry January Guide!

Change Your Life with Your Words: The Power of Positive Affirmations

“The definition of hell is: Your last day on Earth, the person you became meets the person you could have become.”– Dan Sullivan. We all want to live up to our full potential. But life is moving so fast and there are so many obstacles. What can we utilize to manifest the best possible version of ourselves? The answer lies in our words, and this article will discuss how positive affirmations can completely change the direction of your life. I know this because it did with mine.

The DAO of Conquering Negative Thoughts

If you are on a path to fitness, mental fitness is a critical pillar.  You can  only fix so much on the outside. The negativity you experience on the inside can sabotage years of efforts and weigh you down, literally. It is a proven fact that positive thinking and weight loss success are interrelated. Not only that, but mastering the art of guarding your mind can lead to better job success, relationships, and overall health. On the flip side, a negative mindset is associated with depression, weight gain, and disease. 

The 5 Biggest Myths About Strength Training, Busted

“You don’t need to do cardio if you lift weights!” “Weights will make women bulky.” “You have to lift heavy to see your body change.” Ever since bros have been lifting, there has been “broscience.” A classic way to spot one of these broscientists is the guy walking around the gym with a protein shake and a brightly colored pre-workout drink. And he may also be sporting a bag of trolli gummi worms, because it’s “chest day.” A lot of the myths surrounding strength training make it more of an intimidating world to approach. How can you dedicate hours of…

Look back, but don’t stare: why nostalgia benefits mental health

If you read my blog, you know I love to romanticize about the past. Throwback songs, styles, popular sayings and sitcoms are my jam. And a lot of people feel this way – especially after living through a pandemic, where reminiscing about a maskless, unfettered freedom in life may have kept some of us going. Lately I have been wondering – nostaligia good or bad? The research on this is surprising, so read on to find out where you should leave the past.

How Igniting Your Why Can Get You What You Want

“This has been my life. I have found it worth living, and would gladly live it again if the chance were offered me.”- Bertrand Russell, prelude to autobiography In my post about leaving a toxic relationship, I talked about a jumping-off point. There is a basic crossroads here – you either accept where you are at, or don’t. If you do accept where you are at, then you can keep things exactly the way they are. If you don’t accept where you are at, then decide to do something about it. A decision to commit to change, to transformation, and…

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The DAO of fighting fatigue: how to really recharge at night

This part III of the Habit Series will focus on the last third of your day: ending your day, the evening, and sleep.  First thing’s first: you HAVE TO separate work and life at the end of the day… Or you have no chance of resting and recharging…instead you will burn out and be a nervous wreck the next day. In the “pre-pandemic era,” we often ended our day at the office or client site. Leaving work would mean shutting down our computer and making a definitive decision about what could wait until the next day. The commute home would…

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That Time She – A Personal Memoir Collection

This is for no one to read. Or everyone to read, years from now. In the Wall Street Journal was an article called, “The Way You Tell Your Life Story Matters. Start Now.” The part of the article, which was written by a well-known obituary writer captured my attention was this: “Many of us, however, want to cheat death by leaving a mark, however faint. We tend to believe the proverb that people die twice: the first time when their heart stops beating, the second when someone speaks their name, or thinks of them, for the last time.” So this…

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Acupuncture benefits and how-tos

This article is an interview with Artin Mahboubi, DiplAc, who is a is a board certified acupuncturist with a research background in immunology. You can read more about Summit Healing Arts and Artin’s background, here. I started going to acupuncture right before the pandemic. I was always really cuirous about acupuncture, and what Eastern medicine could do beyond the limits of traditional Western medicine. I was and still am terrified of needles, but the trust Artin cultivates in his sessions, which are just as much about the inner soul as the body, has cultivated a willingness I didn’t think I…

How and why to do yoga, barre, and pilates

Before we get to the apps, let’s answer the question – are these optional or niche workouts? Not if you want your body to truly change. Strength training and cardio do a lot, but they don’t work your core, balance or smaller precision muscles in the same way. I used to be the biggest SNOB about yoga. “Oh, that’s’ for hippy dippy people who don’t want to do REAL workouts.” Then I went to my first power yoga class, and collapsed after holding down dog for 10 seconds. This was a RESTING POSE???!!! The point is, if you are not…

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